Navigate Political Disagreements with Ease
Have you ever wondered how to talk politics amicably with that uncle, in-law or elected public official whose views are the polar opposite of yours? You’re not alone. In a virtual presentation, noted educator Dr. Gina M. Masullo discussed research-backed approaches about how to talk to someone whom you disagree with politically.
Presented by the League of Women Voters of Illinois’ Mis/Dis Information Task Force, the talk was part of a statewide effort to provide tools and resources needed to educate voters. Here are highlights:
Prepare for the conversation. Choose who you really want to have the conversation with, then get into the right mindset, mentally and physically. Give yourself a “self-compassion” pep talk. Help reduce stress by doing the “Superman pose,” standing with your arms overhead in a V shape.
What to say. Be humble. Ask questions with genuine openness. Be an advocate for your point of view rather than an opponent of the other side. Bring up a shared belief to show what you have agreed on in the past, then ask questions and actively listen to understand their point of view. Don’t assume because they belong to a political party that they follow the party line or even know its positions.
What to do if people get upset. Avoid telling someone to “calm down.” They may feel like it’s an order or that they’re being patronized, and resist. Use person-centered language as a way to correct someone so they can retain their dignity.
When to end the conversation. It’s time to back away when you feel attacked, threatened or are the victim of a racist, sexist or homophobic remark.